If anyone knows that I am a coach and yet you can’t wrap your head around what that is, I challenge you to watch this entire video by one of the greats, Les Brown. At one point in the video, he explains it very well.
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If you are thinking “That’s great but what can YOU help me with? You’re not where you want to be yet. You’re not where I want to be yet”. My response is that you’re right. But don’t quit reading right there. Consider this. I just went through the roughest year of my entire life. The skills that I have learned as a coach and as a magician enabled me to hold on to my vision and keep moving, even when things looked like there was no hope. I’m still getting caught up. I still have some debts to pay off, I won’t lie. Other people have fought their way back from much worse places. Every success story starts with a horror story, one in which the protagonist simply will not quit. That, I can do! I don’t quit. No special strength of character… I’m just too damned hardheaded to quit 😉 Because I am that way, I can find that part that is inside you and help you draw it out, if you are willing to go through the steps, even when it feels hopeless.
One of the things that I learned was “The fastest way to feel better is to help someone else”. So, I did a bunch of free, intro sessions with new people and it worked. I got such positive feedback that it gave me a sense of purpose. It reminded me that I have something to offer. I was blown away by the compliments and thank you’s that people offered up. To be fair, I asked for referrals… IF AND ONLY IF… they found it to be useful. I’d say that 9 out of every 10 people I worked with wrote referrals for me in various places and they were FAR more kind and generous than I expected.
I got some paying patrons out of it, too; several people didn’t want to stop after 1 session! But the most important thing was that it helped me hold on to my own purpose, my self-esteem. A coach reminds you that life will kick you at times but you’re not done. He or she will reach in and extract that fighting spirit from within you, the thing that will bring your power to the surface.
My niche is that I am a Conjure Coach. That’s a term that I coined myself. While I work with all kinds of people, my specialty is helping people who are into magick to get the best out of themselves. Doesn’t matter if you are into OTO, Wicca, Santeria, Voodoo, Golden Dawn, Druid, LHP, Hoodoo or whatever. I don’t tell you what to do. I help you to get yourself to do what you already know you want and need to do.
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Can’t afford me? Tell me so. Make me an offer on what you COULD afford. I will probably agree to work with you for one or two months on a sliding scale, with the understanding that we will get you earning more, so that you can afford my full fee, which is already more than reasonable.
I believe that if you help someone else, it WILL come back. I’m willing to help but you have to exercise enough faith to ask.